Friday, November 28, 2008

Time Management

  • Introduction
Help accomplish your personal goals by trying these practical tips for using your time effectively.

  • Plan
Planning can be divided into long and short term. Long term planning can go from one to five years. This is the planning that gives overall direction towards goals.

Short term planning include one month planning, that enables you to notice possible crises before they occur, and weekly and daily planning, which increase your general effectiveness.

  • Prioritize
We prioritize our personal life goals by whether we think we do or not. When you say "I don't have time", you are really saying " I choose to do something else with my time." When assigning priority consider the Value versus Urgency.

Tasks that have significant value may not have immediate deadlines, but do have eventual impact of great importance on the accomplishment of your goals.

Urgent items can easily get most of your focus, at the expense of the higher, long term value task. Try to take small steps on the value list each week.

  • Schedule
Make to do lists that encourage you to balance different kinds of needs.

- What I should do vs What I want to do - Don't leave out either responsibility or pleasure.
- Things to do for me vs Things I do for them - Not taking care of yourself will limit your efficiency.
- What's valuable vs What's Urgent - Remember that valuable uses of time may include keeping up your important friendships/ relationships.
- Include the preceding factors when making your to DO lists. Rate each item from 1-5, in order of importance to you.

Break up large jobs into smaller ones. For example, when writing a paper, schedule separate time to collect resources, read the materials, write an outline, compose the paper, edit, and put on the finishing touches.

Use your biological rhythms, Notice the time of day when your energy is high, and schedule your more demanding work at that time.

  • Curtails "Time Bandits"
- Personal email - Limits the number of times you check it daily, as well as time spent on replies.
- Personal Internet Use - Set a timer for 30 minutes to stay aware of how much time is passing.
- Phone /SMS - Try to wait to call back/ message when you have a break. If you do answer when it comes in, tell your friends you will call them back later. They will still like you!
- Distractions - Eliminate as many audio/visual distractions as you can. Choose places and times to work when others are busy with quiet activities or gone.
Errands - Working in small errands daily will help you avoid having to spend a whole day doing weekly "catching up".
- Procrastination - A common complaint.

  • Notice Each Day's Accomplishment
sometimes it is easier to focus on what we didn't get done each day. Make a habit of giving yourself credit for what you did.

START TODAY!

Wednesday, November 19, 2008

My Beautiful Bride



WOW! It's that Zhenyuan? Cecilia? Oh It's my Pepper!

Our Traditional Attire


Our Third and final change of attire for our Wedding on 6th Dec 08.

Binding Our Love


Our Gifts for each other: Rose Gold Wedding Bands & Watches.

My Own Bridal Car



Be using our very own car with our bidded number plate for our Bridal Car.
Sweetheart John & Jen born Yr 1975/78 Hand in Hand.

Our Military Wedding March-in Attire

Our Wedding Evening Attire

My own jacket and Zhenyuan Gown from French Studio.

Tuesday, November 18, 2008

Hardcore Everton Fan Just Got Its Latest Recruit!



Yes, I have finally found someone to be my lifelong partner cum Everton buddy. Yes, she is non other then my dearest Zhenyuan aka Pepper aka Pony.

Monday, November 17, 2008

17 Nov 2008

Yes! Time really flies, today is Pepper and Ironman 6th Month Anniversary since we first met at Plaza Singapura on 17th May 2008. Pick up Zhenyuan's family to Tampines Giant and Ikea for dinner and shopping this evening. 19 more days to go to our wedding on 6th Dec 2008.

Sunday, November 16, 2008

3rd Wedding Prep lesson

Went for our 3rd lesson with Rev Lim this evening at 6.30 to 8pm. Touch on the topic of maintaining an open communication between two individual and living as a married couple. Hmm, very interesting evening indeed for the both of us.

Saturday, November 15, 2008

Everton Back on Form

YES! Since the 1-1 draw with MAN United at home, Everton went on to win 3 more gams in a roll. Beating Bolton 1-0 away,followed by another 1-0 win over Fulham for our first home win at Goodison Park. And last weekend last 10 min fight back to beat Westham 3-1 at Upton park. Win the next match on sun 16 Nov against Middlesbrough and we could climb from 7th to 5th in the EPL. You go Blues!

Thursday, November 13, 2008

Viewing of the Hotel

Went with Zhenyuan and her two younger Sisters to Meritus Mandarin last evening at 6pm after our facial to view the newly renovated Meritus Court Ballroom and Bridal Suite. Again WOW! Nice, We both love it so much. Thank GOD for everything. Count down to 6th Dec 08. 23 more days to go. Thank you Kwang, Sean Seah and Lizhuang for the help rendered yesterday for their Photo, Video, Theme Montage/Poster arrangements from the bottom of our hearts (Edwin & Cecilia).

Wednesday, November 12, 2008

Photo & Video Graphy For Wedding

Phew! Settle the task of finding both Photo and Video Graphy for Ironman and Pepper's Wedding. Blew another $3990 in all.

Met up with Kwang, the Director for Lightbox Photography and was blown away with his work, passion and enthusiasm. Decided to take up his proposal of ($1680 400-600 shots with a 40 page Coffee table book 12" x 12", edited DVD of all shots to be returned) together with Sean Seah'sVideography($1500 including morning/ROM express highlights/edited DVD of the wedding + $250 for my 2nd Montage) for our actual day wedding coverage. Both will have full day coverage.

Next, went to meet up with Lizhuang from Zephyrgraphy/Emotionpix for our Wedding Theme Montage $380 and A1 Size Poster $180 (Ironman), wonderful work they have done. You could see the way they are able to capture the details and compile them together. WOW! Sign up for both the proposal on the spot.

Monday, November 10, 2008

Courage and Tolerance

The Test of Courage comes when we are the Minority.

The Test of Tolerance comes when we are the Majority.

Saturday, November 8, 2008

2nd Day of our Marriage Prep Session

Today, Rev Lim intro to us about the 5 languages of Love which we have already conducted the test for both Pepper and myself when we first met and are very similar so we moved on to the next lesson pretty quick. Rev Lim show us next the 23 Communication Guidelines:

1) Greet your spouse after a period of being separated (even for a few hours) with a smile, pleasant talk such as a happy greeting, touching and kissing, a compliment, humor or recounting one of day's interesting or "success" experiences.

2) Set aside a period of transition between work - or any potentially stressful activity- and other parts of the day. TBC

3) Never discuss serious subjects or important matters that involve potential disagreement when you or your spouse are overly tired, emotionally upset, sick, injured or in pain.

4) TBC....

Sunday, November 2, 2008

Saturday, November 1, 2008

Marriage Preparation Course

Went to Eternal Life Baptist Church off Balestier Road to meet our solemniser for the ROM Rev Joshua Lim this afternoon. We went through our introduction to the Marriage Prep course with Rev Lim and the various stages and expectation of being married. It was an eye opener, enjoyed it very much and also learn a few key things on how we both may communicate or react differently in any given situation. Simply put, how to live our life together as one.

Towards Success