Saturday, November 8, 2008

2nd Day of our Marriage Prep Session

Today, Rev Lim intro to us about the 5 languages of Love which we have already conducted the test for both Pepper and myself when we first met and are very similar so we moved on to the next lesson pretty quick. Rev Lim show us next the 23 Communication Guidelines:

1) Greet your spouse after a period of being separated (even for a few hours) with a smile, pleasant talk such as a happy greeting, touching and kissing, a compliment, humor or recounting one of day's interesting or "success" experiences.

2) Set aside a period of transition between work - or any potentially stressful activity- and other parts of the day. TBC

3) Never discuss serious subjects or important matters that involve potential disagreement when you or your spouse are overly tired, emotionally upset, sick, injured or in pain.

4) TBC....

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